Hes Just Not That Into You Quotes by Greg Behrendt
Why I Purposely Date Men Who Don't Care About Me
He seems distant, difficult and strange—especially lately. You might be completely confused right now and on the fence about what to do. Do you keep pursuing this situation or do you cut your losses? Do you long for the days when he used to treat you with nothing but love? Well, before getting lost in a mental monologue of self-hatred and confusion… step back and think for a moment.
The world is filled with gorgeous, strong, intelligent women who, for whatever reason, find themselves losing all common sense and dignity because of men. I mean, Sex and the City was a huge hit show for a reason — whether you reacted to things like a Carrie or a Charlotte, you identified with those women and their trials and tribulations involving the opposite sex. However, at some point, you need to take a step back from your emotions and assess the situation logically. Look, we hate to be the bearers of bad news, but if you have basically never seen your guy in the sunshine, there are two possible explanations. One, he might be a vampire kidding.
Life is too short to stress over players who string you along and send mixed signals. Who the hell does he think he is? The beginning matters the most. So what are you waiting for? Choose to be happy. You have more control over your feelings that you think. He already has his mind made up about you.
Take The Quiz: Is He Losing Interest?
You know the ones — the guy treats you like crap but you keep running back to him. Respect yourself enough to walk away. When they lose interest in something i. His lack of care for you or your feelings say everything. Your instinct may be to chase this guy and win him back, but hold your damn horses for a second.