Cherished What is the difference between a slave and submissive? (284 people answered this)
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Submissive vs Slave | Dominant Training
The term slave makes a lot of newer husDoms quite uneasy, myself included. As my journey progressed I began to realize that the term slave in the BDSM community can be, and often is, defined differently by many people. It may be beneficial to the contemporary husDOM if the differences were identified and discussed from the perspective of husDOM. In general most people would agree that this type of slavery is abominable. There are some notable differences between this type of slavery and slavery in the BDSM community. Probably the most significant difference is that the slave in the BDSM community is not a slave against their will, they have submitted to their Master willfully. With this submission they have given themselves to be owned and cared for by another.
Kate Kinsey. What is the Difference between a Submissive and a Slave? A submissive obeys and serves by choosing to do so each time and retains her will. A submissive accepts submission, while a slave accepts obedience. A submissive is owned, but a slave is possessed. A submissive has a safe-word to end play, while a slave has consented to no-consent. A slave must be a submissive, but a submissive is not necessarily a slave.
I call myself a slave, but it's really just part of the same thing. Most often you will find slave used to refer to a submissive who is in a 24/7 D/s.
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My Thoughts on the Difference Between a Submissive and a Slave
The following is an answer to a young sub who wanted to know the difference between a slave and a sub during a comment on one of her posts on another website.. Although I would agree to what you have said I will give you my 40 years of being in this lifestyle. Putting it simply I would say;. Submissives are just playing; slaves live the lifestyle. Slaves are crazy, because who in their right mind would want to be a slave? Sign up or log in to share. Who in their right mind would want to be a slave?
If you would like to read Rayne's opinion, you can do so on this post. Well, by the time this is posted it will be 2 years. I've been in the lifestyle for 7 years and have come a long way. The biggest lesson I learned early on was during my first encounter with my Master. It was the importance of not telling too much online to others and that you should guard yourself against the predators out there.
A sexual roleplay or consensual slave could also be a masochist or bottom, but this is not always the case. This term is widely used, as it has a certain self-affirming weight. Some practitioners feel the difference between submissive and slave is the degree of submission. In particular, some slaves do not have a naturally submissive personality, but simply choose to surrender their will and volition to another. It is also worth mentioning that the laws of all countries for example the Thirteenth Amendment to the United States Constitution strictly forbid the practice of slavery. Some people draw up a slave contract that defines the relationship in explicit detail, but these have no legal weight and are therefore not intended to be used in any court of law. In some traditional rituals, after signing a slave contract, many people celebrate the commitment to the relationship with a collaring ceremony, which can be simple or elaborate and friends are usually invited.